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As you read this, I’m likely to be eagerly refreshing my emails for the 45,987th time, because this morning I’m on the precipice of a new chapter of my life: being a school mum. 16 April has long been marked in my calendar as School Decision Day. And although this day dictates a hell of a lot for my daughter (still just three years old, gulp), it’s the parenting around her being a schoolchild that’s the main topic of conversation among my friends. I’ve been asked several times how I’m planning for the school holidays, as the realisation dawns on my generation of parents that the halcyon days of the long summer holidays we had as kids now involve a bucketload of stress and childcare-based coordination as parents. FYI, my answer to that question is always: “I have no idea. You?”

So, while I wait for this email to drop into my inbox, if anyone has the answer to the school holidays childcare question, please do get in touch. My WhatsApp mum groups are begging for a Parenting Elder to tell us what the solution is. (Thankfully if you scroll down you’ll find that Stylist’s editorial director Lisa Smosarski has a great recommendation for the ‘where do I take this brood of children on holiday that doesn’t involve a sad buffet for every meal?’ question, but I’m also always open to other chic holiday recommendations) Until then, we’ll twitter away to ourselves about clubs, annual leave and whose grannies might be able to look after a gaggle of additional children. 

What I’m loving this month… George at Asda’s new unisex kids collection. Think stripey co-ords, oversized jerseys and pastel checkboard prints. The directive is for this collection to be worn “oversized and with attitude”. Excellent.

What I’m struggling with is… sleep. Or a lack thereof. Is it the clocks changing? Is it something I did in a past life that I’m now being punished for? The jury’s out. But when I work in town and miss bedtime, the new sleepy Tonies characters are proving very helpful to distract (and calm down) my three-year-old while the baby (one) is wrestled to sleep next door.

The funniest thing to happen to me was… when my daughter repeated a (very) rude word from a Sabrina Carpenter song in a cafe. Don’t worry, I’ve convinced her that our girl Sabrina is very into truckers

Felicity Thistlethwaite
Digital Content Director, Stylist

PS: enjoy this Instagram v reality parenting selfie from last week. 


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As the long bank holiday weekend stretches out ahead of us, for many the four-day chocolate-filled break from work will coincide with the school holidays too. What does this really mean? Bored children, that’s what. So we’ve pulled together the Stylist solution to boredom in the form of our plans and recommendations. 

Susan Riley, head of brand and mum to Lottie, 10, is heading to a roller disco. She reveals: “Lottie wants us to go to the Guildford Spectrum together to go on the water slides. I try to avoid the jacuzzis as they’re like human soup, but she absolutely loves them. There’s a roller disco on too locally (in the same venue as the slides – eek).” Meanwhile, our deputy art director, Chloe Sharp, is going for the parenting in a village approach. “My partner is in Lisbon for his stag do, so one of my best pals is coming to stay with her two kids for moral support. I might do some baking (all I can make is cheese scones!) and make homemade pizzas. Basically, we’re just going to turn the lounge upside down and into a creche with toys.”

OK, so let’s say you fancy leaving the house. Executive fashion and beauty director Kitty McGee, mum to Dexter, 5, and Woody, 3, says: “We’re going to this amazing climbing wall in Brixton. If I were at my parents’ house in Manchester, I’d go to Splash Art in Liverpool, where you can throw paint everywhere – including at a canvas.” Lucy Reber, fashion director and mum to Dina, 4, adds: “I’m going to take the gang to Vauxhall City Farm. There’s a cafe, and despite it being small, the kids love it and can get up close to the animals. It’s close to the station too, so it’s easy to get there.” (Always one for practical thinking, is our Lucy!) 

Meanwhile, I’m based in the Midlands, so I’m going to convince my husband that a family trip to Bicester Village is a great idea, primarily so I can dive headfirst into the Ganni shop while he takes the kids to the Tarka kids sessions – a mix of arts, crafts and active games. If we have time, I might take my daughter to the cinema to watch the Sylvanian Families movie (I can close my eyes knowing Freya’s adventures run for just 66 minutes). 

And if all else fails, Jenny Tregoning, group production director and mum of two, has a borrowed idea she’s happy to share. “I have to admit I stole this idea from another (genius) parent I spied in the park: create an ‘obstacle course’ (climb over the bench, run round the tree, go down the slide) out of the equipment in the park and have them race each other (or themselves) until they are sufficiently worn out.” 


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The Stolen Girl is here to make us think twice about sleepovers

“It seems our TV schedules are hellbent on exposing parents’ very worst nightmares at the moment, doesn’t it?” says Kayleigh Dray. “Hot on the heels of Adolescence comes The Stolen Girl, a gripping new psychological thriller from Happy Valley producer Nicola Shindler – and it’s all about a child’s sleepover that ends in a terrifying abduction.

“The five-part series leaves no stone unturned as Elisa (Denise Gough) does her due diligence. She spends time with Rebecca (Holliday Grainger), the mum of her daughter’s new BFF, before agreeing to an overnight playdate. She’s charmed, in fact, by Rebecca’s easygoing nature and beautiful home. And yet, it’s not enough: when she goes to collect her daughter, Lucia, the next day, it’s revealed that Rebecca’s house was a holiday rental… and everyone has disappeared.

“Cue an urgent manhunt across Europe, intense police and public scrutiny, and a family sent to hell and back – not to mention plenty of long-buried secrets that begin to surface. And while the Disney+ series is fictional, it’s definitely made me think twice about sleepovers.

“Once a staple of my own childhood – for better or worse (a story for another time) – they now come with too many question marks. Who else will be there? What are the sleeping arrangements? What will they be allowed to watch? Will there be phones? YouTube? Unrestricted internet? Locked doors? Grown-ups I don’t know? Older siblings?

“It sounds like paranoia, but it’s the reality of parenting in a world where we’re more informed than ever. And while I doubt the torrid tale at the heart of The Stolen Girl is based on a true story, there are more than enough real-world horror stories to make me hesitate over this so-called ‘rite of passage’… even if I know my daughters will fight me on it – hard – when they’re older.

“Until then? I’ll be watching The Stolen Girl as a reminder of why I’m taking this stance. And possibly to ensure I never sleep again…” The Stolen Girl is available on Disney+ from Wednesday 16 April.


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